Hey You

This was really hard to get through because I can completely understand how the author is feeling. I went through a terrible relationship for three years that only ended because I couldn’t take it anymore. I don’t ever want to date again. In that kind of intense first relationship it’s too easy to lose yourself and become his girlfriend and nothing else. Like he will try to make you into himself and get angry at you often for not being perfect. It’s really scary what a person will put up with if someone says “I love you” enough times and gets you nice things. I’m really glad I broke it off or he would still be trying to control everything about me that was different than him and I would still be so stressed and miserable all the time. I’m glad that the author is away from such a toxic person and I hope they can find a way to be happy